Yeah, what devymetal and cool papa bell said. You want the other person to be totally clear about what you're looking for. So if they never invite you out for drinks with their buddies or don't invite you to the family holiday party, it's a pretty clear sign they're not looking for a serious thing with you. Should I have said "well let's go make out in my room but all our clothes stay on"? One of the most common worries they share with me is that they have never had a serious boyfriend. That said, if you want a relationship and you're pretty sure this person you have mostly hung out with naked in a bed wants nothing beyond that, be honest or get out. The beauty of this approach is not that it will make more guys want to be in a relationship with you.
Best way I've heard this was "the pants are staying on tonight.
How to Tell Someone You Only Wanna Hook Up
You probably both would like have sex every night, but you […]. It got awkward when your friends returned to the room, but at the same time, asking him into your room would sort of indicate a raising of the bar, and it might have been more awkward when you gave your message in there. If you can combine setting boundaries with telling me something dirty about how aroused you are or how much you want me, then that's a nice balance of showing your sexual side along with making your limits clear. If a guy invites you over for pizza and a movieit's already a clear sign that he just wants to hookup but that doesn't mean you have to.