It adds to the overall experience," says Ian Kernersex expert, researcher, and author of She Comes First: Give yourself points for trying something new, and don't hesitate to try it a few times if the first time you just weren't feeling it. The key to first-time anal sex is going slow, Vrangalova says. Either way is percent fine, and if he keeps pressuring you when you have made it clear that it is not on the table, tell him to suck it. Welcome to Mothership:
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For starters, it lessens the friction and makes the experience more pleasurable in other words, it will hurt less. But that said, some women truly do enjoy anal sex like me, now that I've gotten the hang of it. I hope you don't.